"Several states today are refusing to issue these ID cards to same sex spouses at National Guard facilities. This is wrong. It causes division among our ranks, and it furthers prejudice, which DoD has fought to extinguish." - Secretary of Defence Chuck Hagel.
Oklahoma is one of nine such states. Oklahoma has gone one step further and stopped processing benefits for all couples.
Start closing military bases in states that defy orders from the Department of Defence. Start with Oklahoma.